Score Big Valentine’s Day with These Tips
There’s no holiday that women love more than Valentine’s Day. Of course its a holiday made for the ladies with jewelers, florists and Hallmark directly marketing their goods to the fairer sex. Whether you have a girl, a friend with benefits or just want to find someone for the evening, sex on Valentine’s Day can easily be had if you make the right moves. While it’s good to anticipate for the road ahead and be prepared, don’t get overly eager about your impending sexual activities as one false move can ruin your opportunity for your hot Valentine’s Day hookup. Before you even consider throwing it down, review the tips at AskMen.com for accomplishing mind-blowing V Day sex.
Tread lightly when giving a sexy gift
A kinky Valentine’s Day gift is always a great go-to present for the person you recently got involved with or a casual sex partner. Before you even consider buying something sensual and lavish, consult your partner and investigate his or her desires. Keep in mind that although you may already be aware of your mate’s sexual limitations, it may benefit you to check out his or her level of kinkiness before purchasing something racy.
For instance, if you’re thinking of purchasing your girl some lingerie, make sure it’s something she’d feel comfortable wearing. Similarly, you must use caution when introducing new, erotic elements to your relationship or sexual situation. Ease her into doing things, such as watching erotic videos with you. According to AdamEve.com, there are a ton of options out there ranging from more niche films to those that serve as adult parodies of popular movies and television shows. If your chick is still feeling awkward with this gift — or watching it with you — go with one of the parodies, as their humorous dialogue and settings will make the mood lighter for your first go ’round. There are also more story-based films, too, if you’re looking for an actual narrative and not straight-up sex.
Choose your V-Day hook ups with care
For the single ladies, the Valentine’s Day holiday is often a mournful occasion. This means that they’ll be plenty of down-and-out women for you to catch, and, in many cases, you’ll find women who just don’t want to be alone on this holiday. And even if you aren’t on a date or just met her, you can still be there for her and at the very least, neither of you are alone. Just remember to investigate the situation ahead of time and make sure the person you’re after still meets your sexual expectations and has minimal drama.
If you’re considering hooking up with someone you know like a neighbor or a woman in your office, use caution (per BrickUnderground.com). Although this may be obvious to you, in the midst of passion all rationale and logic can quickly be tossed aside. Even those who work in the most relaxed office environments can fall under harsh scrutiny and judgment if their colleagues discover their sexual antics. Similarly, people talk, and a casual hookup with an acquaintance could damage your reputation. Just be sure to keep your V-Day hanky panky under wraps.
Article by Shirley Hendrix