Kick Start Your Love Life
Do you feel trapped in your own relationship sometimes?! You are tired of the same old schedule?! Maybe things have slowed down?
Some of you may wonder, “How do I get our first date’s adrenaline back?” Do you want to feel those butterflies again?
Freshen up your relationship
Here is the deal: Men like to hunt, and girls like to be conquer. But after that part is done and time has passed, there isn’t much to be excited about. An ugly word called routine has sneaked into your relationship.
But don’t worry. There is always a way to spice up your relationship. You just have to be a little creative and think out of the box every now and then.
So what about role play? Pretend to be someone completely different?!
I know that thought always kills me. I am not such a good actor, but you should have trust in your relationship to get silly at times. Maybe you should hit the liquor store before you get into the role play to loosen up a little. But in my experience, it is the best feeling to please your man and open up to new things. Same thing with the men, they love to please us.
There are different kinds of role play, and it goes as far as your imagination does. Sooo cliché but oh so effective!
Check Party City or another costume store for clearance or good deals on a costume. You know your partner’s fantasies best. And keep in mind that sometimes you have to get out of your comfort zone. But, it’s worth it.
Are you more of the dominant part in your relationship?! Switch from dominant to seductive and watch what happens. I guarantee you, changes will amaze both of you.
For HIM
Women loooove men in uniform, and maybe that new guy knows some new moves or positions?! (Check the app store for sex positions or look online for Kamasutra.) Be creative and make her want you.
Yet another way to role play: Talk in usual settings about this particular role play to make rules and maybe set some limits. But make sure to talk about your partner’s fantasies so you can make the best choice.
The role play: You would meet basically as a blind date (as none of you really knows what to expect) at a restaurant or bar neither of you have been to and meet there “for the first time again.” You get to go through the whole “dating process” and first date again as you both pretend to be completely different people, ideal to your partner’s fantasy.
Girlfriends, pull out that wig and those super sexy high heels. It is on 😉
Have fun!
Sabina is a flirty, 26-year-old woman from a small town in Germany. She loves kids, meeting new people, art, photography, modeling and, of course…M-E-N ! Sabina loves traveling and has discovered the cutest guys can be found in Cincinatti. Her mission is to find out what is up with these 21st Century guys.