Know when to walk away, know when to run
Everybody has some kind of baggage. But if he brings a baggage that is too heavy for you to carry or its even too heavy for himself, then you have to move on.
He might still be in contact with his ex-girlfriend or isn’t over her yet. You need somebody who is truly interested in you and not a guy who is taking the next girl to get over the last one. He is just not ready yet for a new relationship or any kind of commitment. Make sure he is over his last relationship before you commit to anything. Because once you’re in it, it becomes a mess.
Too much drama is no good.
Kids, ex-girlfriends or even jealous friends can ruin your relationship in no time. You find your partner constantly fighting with the ex-partner? The ex calls him to ask him to come over because there is an emergency. Well you watched those emergencies. Make sure the ex doesn’t control your relationship.
Mister date and switch
He looks like the most promising person to date for quite a long time, everything works out great, you commit to a relationship or even a marriage and the man changes completely. It’s not the person you know anymore. You see him do things you never would have expected him to do, he disrespects you, he completely changes his character.
Make sure you really get to know someone before you commit to a relationship or a marriage.
His parents are always around. You go on trips together with them. They control your relationship, and they will always be there in a disturbing way.
Or maybe he’s a mamas boy.
Mama took good care of him, now he wants you to take over. He wants you to cook his favorite meals everyday, make a yummy breakfast and lay out his clothes for the next day. Uhm, excuse me? ARE YOU CRAZY? He is a grown man.
He is constantly high, drunk and even pushes you to take drugs? You don’t want to be involved in that.
If he is not interested in getting help, let him be and walk away.
That man is constantly complaining. He complains about the clothes you wear, the way you look, the food you cook or the things you do. He blames you even for the situation he is in. He is sucking the life out of you. You know it’s not you, he has a serious issue. Talk about it and if you can not figure it out, leave him to himself.
Weird jealousy. He always wants to know where you are going. He checks your social media, tracks your movements. He checks your phone and your pictures. He might be jealous about your beauty, your job, your personality, your income…
He asks you where you are going, why you are talking to certain people. He calls you 10 times a day to ask you what you are doing and freaks out if the schedule changes.
Well, you are a grown person. You don’t need to deal with that.